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One night about a month into dating, she asked — I thought hypothetically — how I'd react if she were a stripper. I believe I responded that I wouldn't care too. I asked her, jokingly, if she was and she didn't say no.

She didn't say yes. I don't remember her next response, but we changed topics fairly marriev and didn't touch it again that night. I think there was a look in her eye, or perhaps the cagey response, but something in her behavior planted the seed in my mind that that might have been what she was trying to tell me.

I knew that she had some "waitress" job on Thursday and Friday nights, that it was "swanky," and that I wasn't really welcome to come visit while she was working. I brought it up again the next day, and she deferred, and said she'd prefer to talk about it in person.

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We got a stirptease that evening and she told me at the bar. She told me on both occasions [about both the camming and the stripping] about what she was doing.

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We are close and I'm like a best beautiful housewives searching casual sex TX to her, so when she was considering becoming a dancer, she told me. I was in a bit of a denial stage for a few moments, but then she married couple wants porno dating striptease worried that I would break up with her because of it — I saw the worry in her eyes and took it seriously.

I was extremely hesitant about it at first, but I realized that [it] wasn't easy for her [to tell me], and I tried to be open-minded. I believe my partner's body is her own, so intellectually I had and have no problem with it. Based in a more emotional, reactive response, though, I was not immune to jealousy. Prior to her, I had had a fairly conventional monogamous relationship history, and married couple wants porno dating striptease this was really, really new to me.

When she told me initially, I was a stripteaes off guard. Love in great billing wasn't percent on board with the idea at first, but she explained to me that she was still going to respect the fact that she was in a relationship with me.

On the inside I knew that she would really have to be transparent with me about what she married couple wants porno dating striptease doing, because I'm not there when she is working and I can be the jealous type I told her that whatever she chose I'd still be with her and support her decision. I went once out of curiosity.

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She was stunned She walked right over to me and asked why I was there, and I told her it was my way srtiptease being supportive. She kissed me but didn't dance for me.

This question is really funny because she is constantly trying to married couple wants porno dating striptease me go with her to a shift. To answer the question, no, I have not. Marrieed can be very jealous and overall I just don't think it's a good idea.

I had been to clubs definitely more than a handful of times, since friends and I went to Atlantic City a lot.

I went to one once with friends, but it's not really in my married couple wants porno dating striptease at all. Yes, my perception of them black girls dominate white guy drastically. I went from seeing the whole business as a seedy, almost brothel-like culture to just another type of showmanship — similar to an actor in a play.

I think Married couple wants porno dating striptease incorporated the idea of agency that strippers and sex workers in general can have into my understanding of self, identity, and sexuality. I think sex-negative perspectives were pervasive when I was growing up, and so the idea that a woman can own her body and provide a transactional sexual service was contradictory to me.

My partner has taught me a sex-positive reframe of that view and showed me that just because it is sadly true [that some sex workers feel degraded, that] doesn't mean it's true for all. Well, I definitely see them in a different light. A lot of strippers aren't like the obvious stereotype — they are real and normal people, and if you met one who wasn't working, you probably wouldn't be able to tell.

It [made it] easy to be open about the bedroom considering that [talking about sex] was a part of our lives at that point.

Sex is always a touchy subject at the beginning of a relationship — we kind of bypassed that and become more forward about what we wanted. It changed me permanently in all my married couple wants porno dating striptease relationships, as I see beating around the bush as childish. We're all adults, so we should be open to talking about sex without snickering or blushing. After my initial reaction, it's developed into something we both find really, really sexy and is often a part of our play.

Often we dirty-talk through scenarios relating to it, and it's really sexy for us. I married couple wants porno dating striptease think it is extremely sexy that I am dating a stripper. There is just some kind of allure and taboo that makes it exciting — I mean, you are daring dating someone whose job is to be sexy and alluring.

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However, I was incredibly insecure about it for a very long time. She kind of plays a character when she's at work, so I was worried about whether she was being sincere with me sometimes, and also knowing she's giving multiple guys lap dances married couple wants porno dating striptease night was very weird to deal with I got over it.

She did dance in private but it mostly devolved into playing around; at work, she was a professional and needed to be in character. At home, she was herself and her goofiness showed through It was impossible grandma sex chat her to keep a straight face. The problem is that she works married couple wants porno dating striptease a dancer at a strip club.

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